The YOPE app is one of the latest gaining traction with teens, particularly as more families embrace screen time boundaries or social media age restrictions for U16s. But what exactly is YOPE, and is it safe for young people?
YOPE is part of a new wave of social media platforms focused on delayed sharing and private connection. It’s appealing to teens who still want to connect with friends without the pressure, performance, or public nature of traditional apps like TikTok or Instagram. However, like any app, it comes with some safety concerns worth understanding.
YOPE is a new trending app
Key Summary
- YOPE is a photo-sharing app that promotes delayed posting and private interaction, different from traditional, performance-based social platforms.
- Teens are drawn to YOPE because it feels more authentic, less public, and helps them stay connected, even under screen time limits or bans.
- The app requires access to phone contacts to connect users, raising privacy and safety considerations. If a person is not a phone contact, they can’t be connected.
- Other trending alternatives include Lapse, BeReal, Lemon8, Discpo and ChatGPT Group chat.
- Parents can support safe tech use by asking questions, explore app features and set up accounts safely by reviewing privacy and wellbeing settings together.
What Is the YOPE app and Why Is It Trending?
YOPE is a social photo-sharing app that encourages users to capture moments and share them later not instantly. This “delayed” model removes the instant feedback loop of likes and comments and shifts focus back to memory-making and real friendships.
Teens are jumping on YOPE because it lets them engage socially without the performance pressure tied to apps like TikTok, where content is public and curated. It’s casual, fun, and designed to be used with close friends only.
Why Teens Are Switching to Apps Like YOPE
Young people still want to connect, even when social media use is restricted or delayed at home or school. Apps like YOPE offer a workaround: they feel like social media but operate on different rules.
Safety Concerns: What Parents Should Know
While YOPE appears more private, there are still important safety considerations:
- Contact Access: YOPE asks to access your child’s phone contacts, similar to apps like BeReal and Snapchat.
- Location Sharing: Some features may include geotags or timestamps that reveal where a photo was taken.
- No Age Verification: As with many social apps, it’s easy for underage users to sign up without strict checks.
- Data Privacy: Be aware of what information the app collects and how it stores user data.
Tip for Parents: If your teen wants to download YOPE, sit with them during setup. Talk through permissions, privacy settings, and who they plan to connect with.
What Apps Are Teens Using Instead of TikTok and Instagram?
Early reports from teens who are exploring alternative apps not including in Australia’s Social Media Age Restrictions include:
- YOPE: Delayed sharing, contact-based friendships, no public profiles.
- Lemon8: A blend of Pinterest and Instagram, with curated but less social pressure.
- Lapse: A “disposable camera” app that develops photos later, encouraging real-life moments.
- Discord: A hub for group chats, private servers, and interest-based communities.
- ChatGPT – Group Chat: Inviting AI into a collaborative conversation with friends.
- BeReal: Prompts users to post one unfiltered photo a day, showing front and back cameras.
How to Talk to Your Teen About New Apps
You don’t need to be a tech expert, just be curious and open. Try these conversation starters:
- “What do you like about this app?”
- “Who do you connect with on it?”
- “Are there privacy settings we can look at together?”
- “What would you do if someone you didn’t know tried to add you?”
The goal isn’t to control, but to build trust and give your child the tools to make safer choices online.
FAQs
Can teens till post instantly?
Yes. Teens (or any user) can post or send photos instantly, and their friends (in those private groups) will get them.
Can friends still like and comment on posts?
There might be ways for friends to “react” or send comments/messages when a photo is shared (since there is “photo chat” and “react to pictures”), but it is unlikely to function like a public feed with visible “likes” counts or “public comments.” The emphasis of Yope is on private sharing, not social‑media style engagement.
Is YOPE safe for teens?
With proper privacy settings and open communication, it can be safer than public social media, but it still requires parent guidance, especially regarding contact sharing. Teens must understand that “private” doesn’t always equal “safe” and to think carefully about what they share.
Can strangers connect with my teen on YOPE?
The app connects through phone contacts, not public discovery, but if your teen has unknown numbers saved, that could be a risk.
Is this just another social media trend?
It’s part of a bigger movement toward “low-pressure” social connections, it’s more about friendship than followers. YOPE is described as a friends‑only photosharing/photo‑messaging app. It aims for privacy and intimacy with no public profiles, no follower/following counts, and no algorithmic, open feed where strangers can see you.
Will YOPE be banned under the new Australian Social Media Legislation?
While eSafety has listed several well-known platforms, every app that fits the definition of social media will be required to restrict users under the age of 16. YOPE is still an emerging platform, so it has not yet been formally categorised. In time, if YOPE is assessed as a social media service under the Act, it may also fall under the age restriction or be required to make changes to comply.
Final Thought
YOPE is part of a growing trend in teen apps that prioritise connection over performance. While it’s less public than TikTok or Instagram, it’s not without its risks.
As you explore alternative ways for your teen to stay connected with their friend online during the Social Media Age Restrictions, it’s important to stay curious, talk early, and download apps together. Explore privacy and wellbeing settings before diving into making their first connection and continue to check in on their appropriate use.
This app review is written by Trent Ray – Lead Educator
December 2025